I’m warning you upfront: This is going to be a little more serious than I usually am. I’ll try to be a little more funny next time.
Abundant Sufficiency begins and ends with dignity. Dignity is both its foundation and its ultimate end. Dignity is its alpha and its omega.
What do we mean by “dignity”? I’m talking about dignity in the original Kantian, Enlightenment sense. The same way the UN charter talks about it. It’s not something one possesses by virtue of good breeding or as a reflection of one’s state of mind. It’s not top hats, bow ties, and silver tipped canes. It’s not a sense of discretion or keeping a stiff upper lip in the face of adversity.
Dignity is inherent. It is inalienable. It is part of the condition of being human. Everyone has it from birth, regardless of circumstance. It cannot be conferred or withheld. Dignity is intrinsically linked to our existence on this planet. It is inseparable.
Kant linked dignity to rationality, our ability to have preferences and make choices, but I would argue that even that makes dignity conditional. Even a newborn infant, who is incapable of making rational decisions in the same sense as an adult, has inherent dignity. It feels, even if it cannot name its feelings. It knows the presence of its mother just as it knows its absence. I cannot say when dignity truly begins, just as it is difficult to pinpoint the exact moment that life begins, but we should all be able to agree that once a child is born, the umbilical cord is cut, and it begins its existence as a discrete entity, its dignity is intact and it deserves to be recognized and respected. As soon as we start doing as Kant suggests, and linking dignity to rationality, we head down a slippery slope. If rationality equals dignity, does less rationality imply less dignity? That sounds a little too much like dismissing people as “low IQ individuals” or, worse, as “useless eaters”.
On a biographical note, I should mention at the outset, that I am writing from a relative position of privilege. I’m a cis het white male with a master’s degree. I’m not at the top of the pile, but I’ve enjoyed a lot of advantages and have almost never found myself on the margins. Although an atheist, I’m nominally Jewish (although not in such a way that would be recognized in an orthodox community) and while I’m quite open about my cultural identity, I also don’t go around advertising it. As such, I’ve barely ever encountered any real antisemitism in my life. In fact, the closest I ever came was when a high school bully included Nazi imagery in some pictures he drew in an attempt to shock or disturb me. However, I never had the impression that he had anything against Jewish people per se, so much as this was a salient detail about me that allowed him to, shall we say, tailor the experience.
I bring this up only because I want to own the fact that I’m not speaking as someone who has had my dignity denied in any systemic way. I’m not speaking from experience so much as I’m expressing a deeply felt principle. Moving on…
If we accept that dignity is unconditional, that it is an inalienable right inherent in every human being, the importance of human flourishing becomes readily apparent. If we all have dignity, we all deserve to flourish. It’s nonnegotiable.
Yet our ability to flourish, unlike dignity itself, is highly conditional under the current order. An accident of birth can elevate one person high above others, lacking nothing, or leave one to scrape out a subsistence level of existence. The color of one’s skin or the language one speaks can signal membership in an elite society or mark one as less deserving of even basic consideration. Dignity is something we all possess, but our circumstances can determine whether or not it is recognized, which seems wrong. In fact, it’s more than merely “wrong”. I would argue that the failure to recognize dignity in another person is unjust and inhumane.
The failure to recognize dignity in another individual can take several forms: It can result in shame, humiliation, or even degradation. These are all deplorable conditions. They represent real harm. But at scale, the denial of dignity has a far more insidious effect: It results in abjection.
”Abjection” is most often connected to the work of Julia Kristeva in literary theory. For Kristeva, abjection is a form of horror. It represents something that exists both inside and outside of the social order, the most common examples being a corpse or human waste. Judith Butler’s work, however, brings the concept into social and political theory, particularly into the realm of gender and sexuality. For Butler, trans, queer, and intersex bodies do not fit neatly into hetero- or cis-normative schema, placing them in the realm of the uncanny. They are almost recognizably human, but their existence threatens the schema.
The threat to the hetero- and cis-normative schema is not merely a matter of confusion or category error. It is an existential threat to the schema itself, threatening to expose that things like sexual orientation and gender identity have always been social constructions. This creates cognitive dissonance for those who exist within the schema. It is a profoundly uncomfortable reaction that demands a response.
This is why homophobic and transphobic reactions often spill over into violence, whether physical or legal. There is a desire to expel the abject individuals from society, requiring the violations against individual dignity named above. This explains the desire to point to a “natural order” in which sex is strictly binary and “men cannot become women”. It explains the desire to protect the categories of people our society deems “vulnerable”, such as women and children. Bathroom bills and laws banning trans athletes from participating in school sports are framed as a rational response to a threat to people’s safety, despite statistics that prove that the threat is nonexistent. It’s bigotry, without question, but it is bigotry rooted in a disgust reaction. Disgust is a pre-conscious reaction, which means that much if not all of what we classify as “bigotry” isn’t the result of decisions people arrive at rationally. They are reacting viscerally to something they regard as fundamentally “unclean”.
This is not to excuse bigotry. Just because it is irrational doesn’t make it tolerable. But it explains a great deal about the kind of people who are denied dignity and the language used to describe them. It explains the tendency to ascribe what some would regard as unwholesome habits, such as eating cats and dogs, to outgroups like immigrants from developing countries. It explains the use of dehumanizing language, describing such people as “vermin” who are “poisoning the blood of our nation”. When people become abject, they are effectively othered and dehumanized, making it possible to perform any number of outrages that one could not justify otherwise. Aliya Rahman, a disabled woman who was detained for two days by ICE back in January, testified before Congress recently. She described the guards at the private facility where she was held as characterizing detainees as “bodies”, as in “we need room for ten more bodies”. This is abjection in action, being carried out right now in the United States on a grand scale.
This is, of course, only one example of abjection in the world today. There’s no shortage of examples. Indeed, the challenge is in making ourselves feel anything at all in the wake of so much dehumanization, degradation, and death. It’s far easier to close our eyes and hope that someone else will do something. The problem, as we know, is that there is no one else. There is only us, by which I mean human beings. We may not be in a position to effect the change necessary to stop these atrocities, but that doesn’t mean that we can’t do anything at all.
So what can we do? The whole project of Abundant Sufficiency demands that the acknowledgment of, and respect for, the dignity of all people is nonnegotiable. No one’s humanity is contingent. While exposure to marginalized groups can have the effect of allowing those who carry and irrational fear or hatred to begin to recognize their humanity, it doesn’t always work. History is full of examples of neighboring communities who retain enmity towards one another for long periods of time. Familiarity can make what was formerly strange become commonplace, but it can also breed contempt. Education can help, but there has to be more.
Abundant Sufficiency demands that the dignity of everyone be protected, but until we can build societal structures to do so, we have to take matters into our own hands.
That means making the recognition of common dignity a daily practice. It means acknowledging the dignity of everyone, including people you might find a little gross or problematic. The people we might characterize as “ghetto” or “trailer trash”. The so-called “people of Walmart”. When you see someone with obesity riding one of those little scooters in public, wearing pajamas outside the house, and wearing day-glo Crocs, remember that you are looking at a human being not a category; not a type. Their humanity isn’t contingent on maintaining a certain standard of health or good taste or fashion sense.
Possibly the hardest thing is to make sure that we are recognizing the dignity of those who would deny the dignity of others, even ourselves. Yes, that includes people like Stephen Miller, the architect of Donald Trump’s immigration crackdown. People are not born hateful. People are made hateful by hateful systems. This isn’t to say that they aren’t responsible for their actions, but at the end of the day, their humanity is not conditional either. Miller has done many repellant things and he deserves to face the consequences of his actions, but even those actions cannot abrogate his own claim to dignity.
That being said, re: Stephen Miller: Fuck that guy.
There’s a whole lot of harm being done in the world, and most of it must be addressed at a systemic level. That means participating in the democratic process, if you happen to live in a place where that’s still a thing. It means organizing. It means voting for candidates who will try and mitigate some of the harm, or at least not inflict more. But I’m not going to sugar coat it: The real problem is the system we have. It has to change and that can only come if enough of us demand it. More on that in another essay…
We don’t have to wait for the rest of the world to recognize a person’s dignity in order for us to do so. I’m not suggesting that if we all join hands and sing “Kumbya”, all of our problems will be solved, but we have to start somewhere and, as the Stoics tell us, the only people we have any control over whatsoever are ourselves. We have a choice to make. Are we going to be the kind of people who can bring about a world of genuine universal human flourishing?
As I said at the start of this screed, dignity is both the beginning and the end of Abundant Sufficiency. By recognizing and affirming the dignity of all people, we’re taking the first step towards a world in which all people are finally allowed to live with dignity. That’s a world worth fighting for.
A final thought: A foundational figure for me is John Donne. Not only was he a kick-ass poet (see “The Sun Rising”) but he wrote something that’s stayed with me ever since I first read it. It’s a famous excerpt from Meditation XVII and it’s worth quoting in full because it’s just that good (italics are mine):
No man is an island, entire of itself; every man is a piece of the continent, a part of the main; if a clod be washed away by the sea, Europe is the less, as well as if a promontory were, as well as if a manor of thy friend's or of thine own were; any man's death diminishes me, because I am involved in mankind, and therefore never send to know for whom the bell tolls; it tolls for thee.
That italicized line says it all as far as I’m concerned. I quote it all the time in conversation, which is why I’m not very popular at parties.
Talk at you all next time.
Thine.